Stay Interview

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A stay interview is a structured conversation between a supervisor and an employee. The goal is to learn what motivates the employee to stay and what factors could lead them to consider leaving. By listening and acting on what you learn, you can strengthen relationships, improve engagement, and help retain valuable employees.

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Mastering the Stay Interview

Guide to having a stay interview

Schedule a 20–30 minute informal conversation with each team member annually, or more frequently as needed. Choose a comfortable, private setting that encourages open dialogue.

  1. Prepare. Review what you already know about the employee and prepare open-ended questions to ask. 
    Core Questions to start:
    1. What do you look forward to when you come to work?
    2. What's something about your role or the team that's been frustrating lately?
    3. If you could change one thing about your job, what would it be?
    4. What would make you consider leaving the university?
  2. Invite. Explain the purpose of the conversation clearly: you value this employee and want to support their satisfaction, engagement, and retention. Share your questions ahead of time so they can come prepared. 
  3. Listen More Than You Talk. Use active listening to understand the employee's perspective. After asking a question, pause and give the employee time to think. Silence often leads to more honest and thoughtful responses. This is not a performance review or corrective action discussion so avoid the urge to fix in the moment.
  4. Follow Up. Employees remember what happens after the conversation.
    1. Share updates on actions taken.
    2. Communicate progress.
    3. If needed, explain when a change is not possible.
    4. Keep any follow-up commitments.

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Key Reminder

Listen first. Understand second. Solve third.

Employees are more likely to stay engaged when they feel heard, valued, and supported.

Questions to Ask

Job Performance

Work Environment
  • What do you need to be effective in your job? What circumstances enable you to do your best work?
  • What expectations did you have when you first came to this job that have not yet been met? 
    Which expectations have been exceeded?
  • What talents are not properly utilized in your current role?
  • What accomplishments on this job have given you the most satisfaction?
Removal of Barriers
  • If you had a chance to change one thing about your job, what would it be and why?
  • What challenges exist in your job or work area? What restricts productivity and innovation?
  • What ideas do you have that might make your work more effective/efficient?
  • What changes to your workload would help you? How would you suggest a redistribution of work?
  • In what ways would a change in staffing or scheduling affect your job? 
  • What organizational issues exist that need to be addressed?
  • How would a change in work location or hours (scheduling) effect your job performance?

Job Satisfaction

Recognition
  • How do you prefer to be recognized (personal note, public recognition, nominal gift, etc.)?
  • Name something that you are excited about that you have made progress in the past few months.
  • What accomplishments have not received enough recognition?
  • What about your job makes you proud of the work you? 
Engagement
  • How do you feel your work contributes to the purpose, values, goals, and culture of our team/university? 
  • How would you describe your engagement level on your team?
  • Have you been provided with timely and direct feedback about your performance?
  • How would you describe your interactions with your coworkers/manager? 

Future within the organization

Development & Growth
  • What are your long-term career goals?
  • Where would you like to be in the organization two years from now? How can I assist you getting there?
  • Are there obstacles you are facing with your career development?
  • What do you like best about your current role? What would you like more of?
  • Are there tasks/duties that are currently not a part of your job that you would like to explore?
  • Are there any learning and development opportunities you would like to pursue? (courses, publications, conferences, etc.)
  • What committees or collaborations would you be able to make a valuable contribution to? 
Retention
  • What currently motivates you and keeps you coming in every day?
  • What makes you feel most successful in this job?
  • What keeps you coming into work every day? 
    Is this different from the reasons you came to the university?
  • What makes you think of leaving this job?
  • What would it take for you to stay?